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Here we are again again again lol. I could not pass up finally getting this URL

  • Saskia
  • 25
  • Non-binary trans femme
  • ADD, ASD, c-PTSD, and Mixed Personality Disorder (Mainly borderline with avoidant and some antisocial traits)
  • Jewish Danish-Rroma
  • Currently living in Denmark
  • Unapologetically horny on main
  • Poly, Bi, switchy top
  • Wife: @doggirl-narcolepsy

Hi ^^ I’m Saskia, I used to be commie-saskia, bimbo-catgirl, neko-saskia and nekosaskia-v2 but I took a break from social media and deleted those original 2 and got the 3rd got shadowbanned. When I decided to come back, so if you used to follow me there welcome back lol. This is mainly a personal blog but also 100% horny on main so view at your own discretion. People under 18 or without their age on their blog will be blocked. If something here personally upsets you but isn’t objectively immoral please do the adult thing and just hit unfollow/block, don’t try to come at me with some rant because I will not care and will tell you to touch grass.

saskia screaming into the voidpinned postplease like if you read and then followed meor read it after following me

sounddesignerjeans:

sounddesignerjeans:

“why do people conflate top/bottom and Dom/sub” because we haven’t socially destigmatized kink. that’s literally it.

if you say you’re topping your boyfriend when you push him around in the bedroom you’re being cool and quirky and using slang to describe your antics. if you do the same thing and say you’re domming him you must be a seriously freaky person. that’s why people use top to mean Dom and bottom to mean sub. they know even if we allow the nice clean gays with their fun bedroom terms into our society, we should never ever be like Those People who spend significant amounts of time and energy learning how to have the kind of sex so many of us clumsily imitate in our bedrooms.

“researching kink is forbidden. talking about kink is forbidden. slapping your partner and choking them is normal because I saw it in porn and my buddies say they do it. don’t go to seminars on how to manage the risk of those activities or you’re a sex-obsessed freak. I’m the normal one, the one whose partner chokes me with their belt and doesn’t know what aftercare is. I’m a bottom.”

the problem is that kink activities are socially acceptable and even expected, but having any awareness of the terminology or safe ways to play surrounding them is heavily stigmatized. kink anti-intellectualism is rampant among people of every political orientation because of how badly our society has poisoned us. so we can’t even say Dom or sub to refer to ourselves. it’s a symptom of that problem.

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as a sub leaning top this shit pisses me off so muchpeople hear “top” and immediately have all sorts of expectationsfalse expectationsthat they then expect me to live up toand as someone with severe RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria)it has forced me into ''consenting'' to so many things i did not at all feel comfortable doingsimply because i didn't feel like i could say “no”partly because of my RSD and partly for feeling a misplaced sense of guilt and responsibility for creating those expectations to begin with

sapphling:

i love when people get up in arms about kink as like a “new perverted phenomenon” bc of their boogeyman obsession with porn. brother gay people have been slapping each other and pretending to be dogs while we fuck since the dawn of time. you’re only just finding out now bc your hole is largely unremarkable and your manner unbecoming

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sailorportia:

tbh I can’t take protectionism over cis male femininity seriously, not after watching anti-effeminacy run rampant on social media in the past few years. Wild to watch “if he wears nail polish or a skirt, he’s an abuser pretending to be safe” pivot into “feminine men are being targeted for recruitment by evil trans women.” Totally sincere, 100%.

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